Saturday, October 31, 2009

Insomia?

Flipping around the bed . but couldnt get a sleep.

With a nice weather (raining), why I cant sleep?

Something is busy in my mind ...

Maybe I am missing u now =(

Wish me could sleep as soon as possible.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

I'm lost

I dunno what to do now =(

Friday, October 23, 2009

26 Meaningful Alphabet for Love Relationship

从A~Z,一共26个英文单词,相当于中国功夫里的26个招数,一路演演绎上去,一定可以找到婚姻下的完美爱情。

  A——accept(接受)

  世上没有十全十美的人,尤其两个人一起就必须互相迁就。记着,你爱他,就必须接受他的一切,甚至缺点。

  B——belief(信任)

  彼此信任是相爱的基础。既然选择了对方,就应该完全信任,不信任对方,彼此互相猜疑的爱情最后只有分手。

  C——coddle(宠爱)

  无论是什么样年纪的人人,都不会拒绝爱侣给他的关心和宠爱,哪怕是一句简短的问候,都能令他倍觉温暖。

  D——devote(奉献)

  倘若没有了奉献,爱情就不会存在。婚姻是需要两个人去好好经营的,只有两个人都奉献出自己的全部,那才是婚姻的真谛。

  E——endure(忍耐)

  大家在尘世奔波,谁都有情绪起伏的时候,若然对方是“凸”的时候,你何不做“凹”去忍耐一下他,迁就一下他呢?这样的相处才会更有波澜也更有滋味。

  F——freedom(自由)

  即使是夫妻,也应给予对方应有的空间,有他保守自己秘密的权利。这样彼此有足够的空间,有足够的自由,会使婚姻里的空气一直保持新鲜,不会让人窒息。

  G——gratitude(感恩)

  永远保持一颗感恩的心,感谢人生的相遇相逢,感谢生活里的一切,包括你的他,感谢这段爱情带给你的开心、幸福。这样,你便会爱得更愉快。

  H——heart(心)

  这是爱情开始的地方,爱情最重要的便是真心,真心对待,用心去爱,你才有资格去梦想。

  I——independence(独立)

  恋爱的时候,我们会说:“我是为了你而生,你是我的一切”。而事实上,任何一个人都不能担当起替代另一个人生活的重任,保持彼此的独立会让我们爱得不那么沉重。

  J——jealousy(妒忌)

  在日常的相处里,小小的妒忌能起到很好的效果,能表示和你对对方的重视,也会让人觉得很可爱,极有生活情趣,但切记:“大醋缸”不在之内。

  K——kiss(吻)

  轻轻的一个吻已经代表你的心,胜过千言万语海誓山盟。既然爱人之间的吻有那么大的功效,又何必吝啬呢?

  L——love(爱)

  都说是爱情,没有爱又怎会有情呢?爱跟喜欢不同,爱一个人,你必定愿意为他做任何事,这是最高的境界。记得跟对方说句:“我爱你”,担保比任何礼物来得甜蜜开心。

  M——mature(成熟)

  爱情就像在酿蜜。走进婚姻的时候,我们都是一样的清涩,等岁月的打磨,经历世事,终于一起成长,一起成熟,经过了时间的考验,让我们的爱会越来越浓越来越稠。

  N——natural(自然)

  清水出芙蓉,天然去雕饰是最高的境界,和对方相处,自然是最打动人的。如果开始的时候把自己伪装的很好,日子久了,要不是你自己累死,要不就会令对方感觉被欺骗了,其实,不做作,流于自然的爱情才是细水长流。

  O——observe(观察)

  结婚了,有了朝夕相处的机会,更经常细心观察爱侣的喜好,不但能更了解对方,更能按照你观察的结果,给他想不到的惊喜。

  P——pure(善良)

  善待别人,善待自己,以一颗善良美好的心去经营你们的生活。

  Q——quarter(宽容)

  宽容让你离爱更近,如果对方有什么不对,你应以宽大的态度原谅他,因为你是最爱他的人。

  R——responsibility(责任)

  婚姻是一场爱情的盛宴,也是一段责任的长跑,没有人能单去享受爱情的欢乐,不去经历责任的负担,对婚姻有一份责任,常常是最重要的秘诀。

  S——share(分享)

  若你爱他,就必能与他分享他的欢喜与悲哀,也自然愿意他来分享你的喜怒哀乐。

  T——tender(温柔)

  爱一个人当然要温柔地去爱,温柔让爱情变得更美好。

  U——understand(理解)

  我们都说生活里理解万岁,更何况是一对爱人,多站在对方立场,将心比己地想,必定能更了解和体贴你的另一半。

  V——veracity(诚实)

  对爱情,必须百分百的诚实,互相欺骗的感情走得了一时,走不了一世。

  W——wait(等待)

  婚姻开始都有一个磨合期,无论谁不适应,都请给予对方充分的时间,不要过早的下结论。

  X——‘X’(乘法符号)

  把你对他的爱每天以倍数地乘上去,爱情自然变成无限大,爱情走也走不掉。

  Y——yearn(想念)

  工作或不在一起时,多想念他并且告诉他,一张明信片,一个短信,都能让你的想念留在对方的心里。

  Z——zest(热情)

  拿出热情对待生活,对待你的他,没有人愿意自己的另一半总是冷若冰霜,适当的热情能加添很多生活乐趣。

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Moody~~

I dunno how to tell out ~~ Hearing songs sing by 张学友. It represent myheart now =(

I dunno this is good or bad . I start judging myself =(

Maybe just I worry too much? I hope so...





HOPE THAT EVERYTHING WILL BE OK TOMORROW.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

School Reopen !!!!

Finally .... After a long holidays of six weeks , sem 2 is started ><

Walau , I feel so different this sem from the 1st sem ... A lot subject is added in and also GEM . My time table for everyday is like 8 am - 5pm OMG? But lucky is , friday class till 11 am only hehe. So if got time I will go back to Malaysia .

Hmmm, just started the second day ,many assisgnment and project is coming in... Need to do it as soon as possible o >< TIRE A!!

How I wish the holiday is longer. But what to do , if don't study ,what can I be?

Starting to miss my family , my friends and especially my dear~~~

THIS WILL BE A BUSY SEM !


Sunday, October 11, 2009

Something to be shared from my friend blog.

This is copied from Kelvin blog.

I think this is meaningful enough to have me to share it with you all.

Thanks to Kelvin for it =)



1. You can’t change other people, and it’s rude to try.

2. It is 100 times more difficult to burn calories than to refrain from consuming them in the first place.

3. If you’re talking to someone you don’t know well, you may be talking to someone who knows way more about whatever you’re talking about than you do.

4. The cheapest and most expensive models are usually both bad deals.

5. Everyone likes somebody who gets to the point quickly.

6. Bad moods will come and go your whole life, and trying to force them away makes them run deeper and last longer.

7. Children are remarkably honest creatures until we teach them not to be.

8. If everyone in the show you’re watching is good-looking, it’s not worth watching.

9. Yelling always makes things worse.

10. Whenever you’re worried about what others will think of you, you’re really just worried about what you’ll think of you.

11. Every problem you have is your responsibility, regardless of who caused it.

12. You never have to deal with more than one moment at a time.

13. If you never doubt your beliefs, then you’re wrong a lot.

14. Managing one’s wants is the most powerful skill a person can learn.

15. Nobody has it all figured out.

16. Cynicism is far too easy to be useful.

17. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours.

18. Whenever you hate something, it hates you back: people, situations and inanimate objects alike.

19. Ralph Waldo Emerson’s works alone can teach you everything you need to know about living with grace and happiness.

20. People embellish everything, as a rule.

21. Anger reveals weakness of character, violence even moreso.

22. Humans cannot destroy the planet, but we can destroy its capacity to keep us alive. And we are.

23. When people are uncomfortable with the present moment, they fidget with their hands or their minds. Watch and see.

24. Those who complain the most, accomplish the least.

25. Putting something off makes it instantly harder and scarier.

26. Credit card debt devours souls.

27. Nobody knows more than a minuscule fraction of what’s going on in the world. It’s just way too big for any one person to know it well.

28. Most of what we see is only what we think about what we see.

29. A person who is unafraid to present an unedited version of herself to the world is as rare as diamonds.

30. The most common addiction in the world is the draw of comfort. It wrecks dreams and breaks people.

31. If what you’re doing feels perfectly safe, there is probably a better course of action.

32. The greatest innovation in the history of humankind is language.

33. Blame is the favorite pastime of those who dislike responsibility.

34. Everyone you meet is better than you at something.

35. Proof is nothing but a collection of opinions that match one’s own.

36. Knowledge is belief, nothing more.

37. Indulging your desires is not self-love.

38. What makes human beings different from animals is that animals can be themselves with ease.

39. Self-examination is the only path out of misery.

40. Whoever you are, you will die. To know and understand that means you are alive.

41. Revenge is for the petty and irresponsible.

42. Getting truly organized can vastly improve anyone’s life.

43. Almost every cliché contains a truth so profound that people have been compelled to repeat it until it makes you roll your eyes. But the wisdom is still in there.

44. People cause suffering when they are suffering themselves. Alleviating their suffering will probably remove their inclination to create it for others.

45. High quality is worth any quantity, in possessions, friends and experiences.

46. The world would be a better place if everyone read National Geographic.

47. If you aren’t happy single, you won’t be happy in a relationship.

48. Even if it costs no money, nothing is free if it takes time.

49. Emotions exist to make us heavily biased towards or against something. This hinders as often as it helps.

50. Addiction is a much greater problem in society than it’s made out to be. It’s present in every person in various forms, but usually we call it something else.

51. “Gut feeling” is not just a euphemism. Tension in the abdomen speaks volumes about how you truly feel about something, beyond all arguments and rationales.

52. Posture and dress change profoundly how you feel about yourself and how others feel about you, like it or not.

53. Everyone thinks they’re an above average driver.

54. The urge to punish others has much more to do with venting frustration than correcting behavior.

55. By default, people think far too much.

56. If anything is worth splurging on, it’s a high-quality mattress. You’ll spend a third of your life using it.

57. There is nothing worse than having no friends.

58. To write a person off as worthless is an act of great violence.

59. Try as we might to be otherwise, we are all hypocrites.

60. Justice is a human invention which is in reality rarely achievable, but many will not hesitate to destroy lives demanding it.

61. Kids will usually understand exactly what you mean if you keep it to one or two short sentences.

62. Stuff that’s on sale usually has an annoying downside.

63. Casual swearing makes people sound dumb.

64. Words are immensely powerful. One cruel remark can wound someone for life.

65. It’s easy to make someone’s day just by being uncommonly pleasant to them.

66. Most of what children learn from their parents isn’t taught on purpose.

67. The secret ingredient is usually butter, in obscene amounts.

68. It is worth re-trying foods that you didn’t like at first.

69. Problems, when they arise, are rarely as painful as the act of fearing them.

70. Nothing — ever — happens exactly like you pictured it.

71. North Americans are generally terrible at accepting compliments and offers of help.

72. There are not enough women in positions of power. The world has suffered from this deficit for a long time.

73. When you break promises to yourself, you feel terrible. When you make a habit of it, you begin to hate yourself.

74. A good nine out of ten bad things I worry about never happen. A good nine out of ten bad things that did happen never occurred to me to worry about.

75. You can’t hide a bad mood from people who know you well, but you can always be polite.

76. Sometimes you have to remove certain people from your life, even if they’re family.

77. Anyone can be calmed in an instant by looking at the ocean or the stars.

78. There is no point finishing a book you aren’t enjoying. Life is too short for that. Swallow your pride and put it down for good, unfinished.

79. There is no correlation between the price of a brand of batteries and how long they last.

80. Breaking new ground only takes a tiny amount more effort than you’re used to giving.

81. Life is a solo trip, but you’ll have lots of visitors. Some of them are long-term, most aren’t.

82. One of the best things you can do for your kids is take them on road trips. I’m not a parent, but I was a kid once.

83. The fewer possessions you have, the more they do for you.

84. Einstein was wiser than he was intelligent, and he was a genius.

85. When you’re sick of your own life, that’s a good time to pick up a book.

86. Wishing things were different is a great way to torture yourself.

87. The ability to be happy is nothing other than the ability to come to terms with how things change.

88. Killing time is an atrocity. It’s priceless, and it never grows back.


Wednesday, October 7, 2009

BBQ in my house ...

19/09/2009

Today I organised a BBQ in my house... Dunno why , like a custom, I will always organised BBQ or steambot to invite my friends to my house.



All busy BBQ-ing...


All the sausages !!!



Eh... How come got karaoke section in my house also ?


Yi Ling and me


Gambling section in my house?


Act cute?

After the BBQ, whole gang decided to go to Old Town Yam Cha ... OMG... Just eat now still go there ... nvm , just follow... Chit chating until 2 am only go back ...

Sam... Please wait patiently for your turn to order ><


Everyone please look at here =)


Everyone is waiting for their orders.


Jern Yuan is eating the egg on the toast with "special" add on by Zi Liang.



Inactiveness!!

Hmm , so long I didnt update my blog since I go back to Malaysia already, hmmm let me count ,1 ,2 .... oh is 20 days of inactiveness ><

Sorry lor ...too busy ma haha.... but will post back some activity de ><